Finding a boyfriend can be really difficult and stressful. It’s not uncommon for women to bang their heads on the wall trying to figure out how to get a boyfriend. If you’re one of them, it’s time to change.
By that, I mean changing yourself from unfit to fit. That’s right, no more being overweight, lazy, and unfit. Go to the gym or you can work out at home too and start to make yourself healthier.
But why, you may ask? Well, because it’s easier to find a boyfriend if you’re fit. There are plenty of reasons why being fit helps you find your soulmate. If you’re still unsure, I want to convince you with my list below.
Easier for men to compliment you
If you’re fit, you’ll give men more reasons to compliment you and many men use compliments to break the ice. You don’t even need to do anything, to be honest. Let’s say you’re drinking your coffee somewhere and a guy sees you and he thinks that you have a great body.
He could use that chance to come up to you and compliment you. And from there on, you can have a normal conversation. See how easy that is? Sometimes, men just can’t resist giving women a compliment.
And by being fit, you encourage men to do just that. Before you know it, you’ll have a potential boyfriend right in front of you.
Sign of a great mother
Believe it or not, some men are looking to be a father, and they know if a woman will be a great mother or not. And I think it’s common to think that fit women are going to give birth to healthy babies as well.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s not only about men, but it’s about you as well. Fitness or athleticism can be beneficial in terms of labor. As opposed to obese and unhealthy women who with the highest Caesar and complication rates.
Makes you more confident
Perhaps, being fit puts your mind at ease and makes you more confident in finding your soulmate. Men can detect and love confidence too.
Sometimes women who are having difficulties finding a boyfriend are too shy or reserved when talking to the opposite sex. Some men might interpret your shyness as the sign that you’re not into them, so men might stay away from you.
Fitness can bring confidence, so much confidence that you might have the courage to ask out your crush. Nothing is going to scare you any more from letting your crush know that you’re into him and open to dating.
This is especially good if you’ve been feeling that way for a long time. And you need the final push to bring you one step closer to his heart. It’s not just women who need the extra push, men need it too. And to hell with waiting right? Just be honest with your feeling and let your crush know about it.
Gives you something to talk about
It makes sense that fit women are close to fit men: because they have the same hobbies, which is working out. If you go to a gym regularly, and you happen to like a guy there, you can use this chance to get close to him.
You already have the same hobby, which is working out, right? And you visit the same gym too, now you have a lot to talk about and the time for conversation. You have more chance to date the guy compared to other women who don’t exercise or don’t go to the same gym.
Even if you don’t go to the same gym, you still have the fitness to talk about. Maybe you can also talk about diet, fitness program, favorite machines, the best time to work out, and many more. You have all the tools you need to find a date.
Most importantly, being healthy should be your number one priority
Sometimes, people don’t even have to look for a partner, you know? Just by being comfortable with themselves, they’re friends with everyone around them. And in this scenario, it’s easy to find someone who loves you.